I have been complaining about lotsa stuff. About friends, about people, about relationship, about food, about health, about money, about apparels, about work....
....about almost EVERYTHING
Last night, I took about 5 minutes to ponder over what I've done lately. Am I living a very unhappy life that causes me to complain often? Or, its just a BADDDD habit that I have picked up?
*shit shit*
I think I should learn how to stop complaining, and be grateful. Perhaps there's nothing so wrong about complaining, coz it does help me to feel better sometimes, but I'll make sure I won't over do it. I'll never want to end up being known as one of those people who complains about everything.
"How do you feel when someone unloads all of their problems and complaints on you? Not very uplifting and energizing, is it? The truth is, nobody likes to be around a complainer -- except, perhaps, other complainers.
Of course, all of us complain at one time or another. The important question is: how often do you complain? If you're wondering whether you complain too much, simply ask your friends, relatives or coworkers. They'll let you know." - Jeff Keller
Thank God for the super super convenient working place Thank God for the daily RM1.80 breakfast@FCM Cafe Thank God for the flexible working environment Thank God I don't have to go through tiring traffic jams after work
A song I would like to share with all Malaysians. Its in Tamil, I assume. Though I don't understand the lyrics, but the music is indeed awesome and touching. Perhaps somebody out there is nice enough to translate them for me? :D I'll really appreciate that. And yeah, I lurrrrve the combination of the traditional percussion from different races.
"UNITY & HARMONY through MELODY"
MK, Atilia, Calvin Lau Fusion of Malaysia
Directed and Edited by : Sasitharan Rajoo Graphic Designed by :Rozaidi Mohamed Visual Graphics by : Lan
Keyboard by Jay Flute by Muhardiman.B.Ismail Gu Zheng by Lim Hui Chieh Violin by Pangasaasanii Gowrisan Gambus by Khazrin Yani Bin Mohd Raya Erhu by Ching Koi Min Sitar by Kumar Karthigesu Latin Percussion by Steve Thornton Tabla by Prakash Kandasamy Kompang by Mohd Shah Nizam Bin Azis
We went to Seoul Garden, IOI Mall to celebrate Nabilah and Mira's birthday. :D Que and I came up with a last minute plan as everyone was so busy with their working life now, and we're worried we couldn't get Nab out. So there we are, the girls mini outing with Jibin.
Birthday Girl #1 - Nabilah
Birthday Girl #2 - Mira
*credits to Mira & Que for all the pictures above*
The food was great, the environment was splendid. We did had a lot fun eyh? Hope we'll have more girls outing like this in the future. In bigger group perhaps? :D
driving on lonely roads at night... driving when it's raining... driving when there's a lot of cars on the road.. driving when there's traffic jams... driving to places I've never been to... driving long distances...
++ i had my first accident on a rainy day with lotsa cars on the road and traffic jams
I have the LEAST courage to do this. I thought I've overcome the fear...well guess I haven't.
Your view on yourself: Other people find you very interesting, but you are really hiding your true self. Your friends love you because you are a good listener. They'll probably still love you if you learn to be yourself with them.
The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for: You like serious, smart and determined people. You don't judge a book by its cover, so good-looking people aren't necessarily your style. This makes you an attractive person in many people's eyes.
Your readiness to commit to a relationship: You prefer to get to know a person very well before deciding whether you will commit to the relationship.
The seriousness of your love: You like to flirt and behave seductively. The opposite sex finds this very attractive, and that's why you'll always have admirers hanging off your arms. But how serious are you about choosing someone to be in a relationship with?
Your views on education Education is very important in life. You want to study hard and learn as much as you can.
The right job for you: You have plenty of dream jobs but have little chance of doing any of them if you don't focus on something in particular. You need to choose something and go for it to be happy and achieve success.
How do you view success: You are confident that you will be successful in your chosen career and nothing will stop you from trying.
What are you most afraid of: You are afraid of things that you cannot control. Sometimes you show your anger to cover up how you feel.
Who is your true self: You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve.
This afternoon I had lunch with a PhD graduate in Manhattan Fish Market @ Alamanda Putrajaya. It has been a year since we've met each other, definitely lotsa thing to catch up with eh? :D We talked about education, talked about life, talked about future. Awesome conversation we had. It opened up my mind somehow, listening to advices and opinions I've never thought of. As the Malay idiom goes, "Jauh perjalanan, luas pemandangan" which means, "The more you travel, the wider your knowledge will be".
Thanks a lot Dr. Soon~! Let's have lunch together again next time yea.
Later in the evening, Robin asked me out for dinner at Pappa Rich after his meeting. :D Again we had this long long conversation. He's amazing, I would say as not much guys around his age would think so far ahead yet. We talked about our new working life, about relationship, about automobiles, about politics, about the new budget policy *that's so rare of me* and about things we used to do when we're still studying.
"Working 7 days a week, no time to lepak2 at night, no time for shopping, no time to flirt around, no time to get a girlfriend and no time to enjoy during the weekend. Yes, NO LIFE. But I rather suffer now, than to suffer when I'm older. All those can wait. Life isn't that easy."
Thanks Robin, I'll keep in mind everything you've told me today.
Oh. not forgetting...thanks for the treat too. Kekekeke.
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Thank You
for the loving family for the caring friends for the health for the wealth for the awareness for the teachings for the opportunities